My Gains from Power Processing and Identity Processing

2014-10-12T00:22:52Z

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My Gains from Power Processing and Identity Processing:

My ability to be comfortable wherever I’m at amazes me, nothing throws me off! Now, it’s all the time!

Thanks, Dex!

Kyle Austin
October 9, 2014

"What happened next blew me away"

2014-10-12T00:16:28Z

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John Brownlee has had a long Scientology-related history, including having audited between 10,000 and 12,000 hours “in the chair” as an Expanded Dianetics Specialist between 1972 and 1982. Between then and now, John experienced related modalities of processing, such as Alan Walter’s Knowledgism.
Not long ago, John came onboard as a client of mine, for the dual purposes of “handling his case” to satisfy his own spiritual needs and to prepare himself to get back into the game of processing others (remember his name, if it’s new to you, he’s going to be very effective, and I can’t process everyone all by myself! ☺)
Here is what John would like to share:
Dexter,
Thanks to you, I am one of the very few people who can say they finally got handled what they came into Scientology to get handled (!) And in rather spectacular fashion, too.
Of course you were there to witness this, so this is not news to you, but in writing up my wins it occurred to me that others might benefit from hearing my account, especially if they might be considering starting processing themselves.
I am not saying that my case is typical, that others would experience the same thing, but rather, wonderful things are indeed possible in processing.
As you know, I am not a stranger to processing and many other forms of experimentation. One would think that this latest result should have happened far sooner, but it didn’t. The area got touched on for the first time when I did Alan Walter’s training, but I was a trainee rather than a client and didn’t pursue things further back then.
Before contacting you, life was beating me up pretty badly. Despite that, when you asked me what it was I wanted to get handled, I truly could not come up with a definite answer to the question. I just couldn’t. I knew I was suffering but that suffering was so much a part of me, and my existence, I couldn’t name or define it.
Indeed, I believe that was one of the first things we took up handling- the feeling or attitude “I can’t get it”. And things progressed from there.
This is where your approach is so different from the “standard tech” of Scientology. You take up what the client has their attention on. Funny thing is, Ron says too that the idea of processing is to parallel the PC’s mind-to handle what they have their attention on. He says that if you do this, the PC will be wildly interested and will run like a dream. But we know that this simply is not done in the church.
Whatever, I can tell you Ron was right. We did exactly what he suggested and things ran great!
So…. here’s my story as best as I can recall it now:
(a lot of what you did was ask for moods, or sensations, etc connected with items or areas that would come up and I can’t remember precisely all the items we ran, but certainly salient or pivotal ones. Some of those I will relate here.)
For instance, a feeling of “death” came up .. Running that (or an item connected with it), I found myself going into a drowsy state and realized I must be encountering a past death-which one I didn’t know. At first, I felt it must be recent, and then later concluded that, that it was, in fact, at the end of my last lifetime.
Thereafter, in session, the same area would keep on coming up.

I would have amazing realizations about it, about events related to it, the people involved, locations, details, etc. At one point I suddenly realized that it felt like I was harbouring a secret shame, a family secret, but as to what that might be, I had not a clue. Still, it was a cognition, and as with so many others, I would state the realization, come up to present and, when the win was a good one, we would end off until the next session.
Ron Hubbard talks about children often being stuck in a recent death. In my case, though largely unknown to me, I spent the better part of my life triggered into exactly that. For the first time, we were examining it, digging things out of it. I was learning more and more about what had happened.
I began to see how so much of who I have been being this lifetime might have come directly out of my experience then. And it was an horrific one. Extremely traumatic, involving family members, some of whom I knew again this life-a perfect storm in terms of triggers
Of course, a skeptic (myself included) could say that this is all make-believe, that this could all be the result of an overactive imagination. Through my own experience in the church, for instance, I concluded that the general practice of writing success stories, attesting, having to get F/Ns, etc, created a culture where PCs tended to manufacture good indicators. And with the overrunning of Dianetics, especially, incidents became unreal, constantly changing, sounding more and more bizarre. Many wins sounded hollow; quite frankly, people generally did not appear to be doing any better in the real world.
In this round of processing, therefore, I was determined not to make this mistake. I wanted confirmation that my wins were real, not just wishful thinking.
What happened next, blew me away.
You asked me if there was a shock, and I immediately teared up, signaling to me that this was indeed the case. But when you told me to “return to the moment of shock” it was like you had thrown a switch and I found myself suddenly in full-blown revivification! My assailant was attacking me, overwhelming me, and I heard myself mentally shouting, over and over, in horror and disbelief, “WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS??!!. WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS?”
I was a crying, blubbering mess. And it took me a long time to finally come out of that.
But I did. I had a realization about what had happened, mopped up, we finished the session.
But next session, the same thing would happen again. You’d say “return to the moment of shock” and I would. Right back into that horror and shock and chaos, the whole event more real than anything in my room.
And again and again. Each session the same or similar, each time discovering more and more, but each time feeling that the grief and sadness would never end.
Of course, I would come out of that each time, feeling better for having learned more, but each time knowing that there was yet more to confront.
You had me describe the shock-it’s size, it’s colour, etc. Indeed, it felt like it was as big as my world, that it included everything in my world, and was a burden the size of my world.

I have to digress here. As our processing took place over the space of a few months, life happened too, between sessions.
Interestingly, I noticed that much of that drama taking place in my life seemed to be directly related to what we were running! How cool was that?
It was like life kept handing me more and more triggers, tossing me back into that other lifetime. I began to see how I had been living though all this suffering, attempting to deal with life from this viewpoint of suffering. In short, it seemed that my whole life situation now might be a direct outcome of the trauma from my last life. Who can you tell this to apart from your processor?!
Between sessions, especially when we would have no processing for a week or more, it felt like I was walking around on emotional eggshells, all this grief and emotion sitting just under the surface.
Not a bad thing, however. I say that because I began to also see how I had adopted an entire persona of stoicism in order to deal with my emotions. I had always thought that I had managed quite well despite a rough childhood, for instance. Then it began dawning on me that exactly the opposite was true. I hadn’t escaped unscathed. Not at all.
Quite a startling revelation that was, occurring outside of session while writing a journal describing my feelings.
So things were percolating, unraveling. Charge was peeling off in layers, like an onion.
And again, each session, I would flip into that experience of shock and grief, thinking that it was never-ending. Until one morning I tried to describe exactly what personality I had become through that experience-the personality I would slip into every time I had a big loss, or a major falling out with someone. And it was eerie. And nasty. I was discovering I could really look at myself for the first time. At my worst, projected cold, harsh, silent, uncompromisingly rigid and unbending, cruel, self-righteous, all-encompassing and vengefully dismissive disdain. Ugh.
The self-righteous part kind of clued me in. This was beginning to sound curiously like a service facsimile. Could I be using this suffering as a make wrong, make myself right, etc. kind of thing?
The very next session, again, I went right into revivification upon hearing “return to the moment of shock”. But this time, it was short, and it seemed like I bounced right out of it. Upon hearing the command again, I couldn’t contact the shock at all.
Surprised, and a little curious, I offered that it seemed like something had blown. Not something major, but something had changed, somehow. It was like a string to a large balloon had been cut, and something was floating away.
It seemed unreal that something so huge and so significant could just disappear without the least of fanfares.
Then, quite suddenly, my body started to hyperventilate. Then this truly bizarre sensation began moving over and through me. I was stunned - I couldn’t figure out what was happening. And happening it was!
I started to laugh. And I began laughing harder and harder. It occurred to me that you may not know that I was laughing this time and not crying, as, to me at least, it sounded much the same ☺
So I managed to gasp out to you that I was laughing, but at what I didn’t know (!) Truly, it wasn’t funny, but I was laughing so hard my stomach was hurting. That was weird!
But then I began to see that it was relief. It was the last vestiges of that which I had been holding onto that had been cut. All that shock, that pain and suffering, was now dissipating and I was in the throes of incredible relief and release.
I was going wow wow wow in my head! And I started moving up and out, and away.
I kept thinking how unique it was that so much of the experience was happening before the realizations. Usually, it works the opposite. I have a realization and THEN I start experiencing the release. This time it was all in reverse. How wild is that?!
And all the time I was laughing harder than I have ever laughed in my life-with the exception of one other time I won’t go into here, LOL!
And I began to see how I HAD used this suffering as a make wrong. It was like I wanted others to know and understand how much I was suffering and if they didn’t, then I would try to make them suffer as I did. I mean, why should I be the only one suffering? LOL!
And of course, THEN, I found this to be uproariously hilarious.
Yes, I could see how people everywhere in their suffering used exactly this.
So on some level, I was holding onto this as a survival thing. It was the cutting of that last tie that ended the need to keep on holding onto this any longer.
And then, of course, more and more cognitions kept coming.
I could see how all that crying was simply the process of arriving at viewing the incident in its entirety, at which point it vanished. As-is-ness at work. It was such a validation of the whole process, of the axioms.
And then I got all gushy with appreciation and the tears came again. But not bad ones, just tears at the magnitude and profundity of my experience.
I was releasing all my suffering. It was not that I was released from suffering. I was releasing suffering from me!
I had been holding onto that all my life!
I could see suffering from a completely different perspective.
And I realized that this was my purpose in coming into Scientology in the first place. I wanted to help people in their suffering. I was not such a bad guy at all☺. And of course, I came in too because I wanted relief from MY suffering.
This is what I meant when I said I have handled what I came into Scientology to handle.
On the Grades Chart is says about moving out of fixed conditions as a state on Grade IV, I believe. Grade IV has to do with Service Facsimiles. How apt.
So I have a new state now….moving out of fixed conditions, see?
I listed tons more wins from this in my last email to you, but this is my summary.
What fun☺
Oh yes, the other thing is I feel this profound sense of appreciation for you and for what you are doing.
And of course, one of my goals in processing was to revitalize my desire to work with others, to help them in the same way I have been helped. I have that too, now.
All this took place via Skype, over a period of a few months (but about 2 intensives-24 hours-in total) That’s it. No wasted time. No bogging down in endless repair actions, endless ruds, etc etc. It’s been a joy throughout. And what a bargain!
Take this success story and do anything you want with it☺
It’s been just so great.
You’ve been wonderful.
John B

Success Story: Relationship Processing

2014-10-12T00:12:25Z

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Success Story: Relationship Processing

Most, if not all of us have been plagued by situations of abrasive, unsmooth relationships at times with people we have around us frequently, be it a co-worker, family member, romantic partner, someone sharing a daily frequented environment that we are too often not getting along very well with. This becomes a constant assault on one’s peace of mind and one’s ability to be present.

I’ve developed a three-step protocol of processing techniques that effectively dismantles the hostilities and brings about (or restores) a harmonious relationship.

When a relationship between people in frequent contact is rough, life is not good.

The power of Relationship Processing is something that everyone should find out about, and avail oneself of when needed.

Here’s the story of one client:

“The most amazing thing happened. I was having problems at work with a person I would run into on a semi regular basis. I really hated this guy and he hated me back.

Every time we encountered each other we would butt heads. After every argument and disagreement it would bother me for several days. It made me feel smaller. I was anticipating the discomfort of the next encounter with this guy so much, it seemed to be all I thought about at times. It took away from the time I could be spending on other, better things.

Dex has a process he created exactly for this kind of a situation. We did it-
Wow! It was so simple, and I felt AMAZING right away. It was incredible.

So guess what, that guy who used to piss me off came by today. It was incredible. It was like my good buddy had just rolled up. As we walked and talked we shook hands like 3 times and said good bye twice. It was awesome a completely new relationship. It was great to see him and I sure hope he comes back soon.

A. K.

"The most self-discovery I have ever made"

2014-10-12T00:10:26Z

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Hey Dex,

Just want to say "Thanx" for a great session. But the processing is continuing...

I wanted to add to my wins and say that it feels as though I am getting False Data Stripping on the subject of Life. More specifically, my life. This is very definitely the most interesting journey that I have ever been on. And the most self-discovery I have ever made. I am really getting to know who I really am and can actually BE that person. There is even more to this that has not surfaced yet, I will let you know when it does.

The fact that I can now actually grant myself beingness is a real turning point for me. Especially since I now realize that I have never been able to do that before. But I can only see that now that I can grant beingness to myself.

Thanks for all you do,
Sincerely, DK

"The most self-discovery I have ever made"

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"The Power Processing session cut right through the Gordion Knot"

2014-10-12T00:07:23Z

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During my last Power Processing session, I encountered the heaviest engram in my auditing history. The content of the engram was very much in restim on a daily basis. Daily my mind was not focused on important things but was focused in a direction that can be termed non-optimum survival. This was so very much the case that the restim seemed to be a totally immoveable object, or a Gordion Knot. It seemed like the Power Processing session cut right through the Gordion Knot and I’ve been given a return of some of my own basic stability. I had serious doubts before session that this could be handled even a tiny bit, but I’ve made a serious dent in this aspect of case.

I’d like to thank Dex for his expert auditing and LRH and everyone involved for making this Power Processing a reality for me. Several other major actions inside the Church of Scientology did absolutely nothing to handle this case for me, case that has been with me for a very long time, case that I’ve wanted handled ever since my first reading of Dianetics. Only now, outside of the church, in my second auditing session, is that case now being addressed, and successfully!

E.C.

After 80 years..

2014-10-11T23:50:08Z

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What comes up is what comes up. I had the pleasure of being audited by Dex. I had an incident that had been ruining my life for over 80 years. I ran part of the incident once and more of it 10 years later in earlier auditing sessions, but only just now, in 2014, the full incident has finally been erased in a single session.
My next session was cool, it helped me with my arthritis, I was blown away after the session! The arthritis is not bothering me at all, Wow, I feel great!

Much love to my auditor.

Caesar Alarcon
4/14/2014

"I am a bit speechless, as I have no frame of reference for what I am experiencing"

2014-10-11T23:46:32Z

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Wins from recent auditing

I don't really know what to say. I am a bit speechless, as I have no frame of reference for what I am experiencing. I know something big has happened and something has shifted for me. For many years now on the inside (in the C of S), I would go in and originate that something felt "off" or was wrong, and I hoped the error in my folder would be spotted. The response I typically got was that I just need to continue on to the next thing and it would eventually resolve. Eventually after being audited till after 3 am, the next morning I was given the "R Factor" that I was not Clear after having attested to it in the early 90's at Flag. I knew at that moment I was being lied to. I knew what I had experienced. Nonetheless I persisted a bit longer until I had the time to observe more. I had someone tell me they had the same R factor 6 times. I was somewhat discouraged, and after, while in a very problematic marriage that thankfully has ended, I would often find myself thinking, “I wish it was all over”. I was traumatized by how I had lived my life and what I had given of myself to go free in this way. I wanted my life to end and often thought about it. I had lost all hope and when I had mentioned this to my friend who was on the inside, I was told not to do it because it would make the Church look bad! There was no, “Man, how can I really help this guy who had spent all these years here”. I left. I found out about Dexter through a friend who had left. I hadn't known her intimately or for very long, but I knew that I trusted her even though there were those who cut their connection to her. I'm guessing they didn't even spend an evening or two getting to know her, but at the encouragement of others they drew the line and cut it. I'm so glad I trusted my own counsel and heart. In the very first session with Dexter I rehabbed some of my earliest wins. They were big and they were why I had stuck it out so long. Throughout my experiences I noticed that just as soon as I had a huge win, someone would move in, and, by pressuring me, cave me in to the point where I needed to have another fix-me-up. This would happen over and over and over again. I went into debt, I mismanaged my finances, I had to sell my house, I lost the respect of my children, I lost my pride and dignity amongst my colleagues. Had I taken a vow of poverty and entered the priesthood someplace I would have been given some sense of respect, but here I lost most of it. By most measures I am very accomplished, respected, but I knew what thoughts reigned in my heart and the exterior did not match the interior. Oftentimes I would hear someone speak of their wins on an OT level and I would think that I needed to get to that point before I would have my life back. One time in particular comes to mind. A woman in her 50's attested to OT 6 and mentioned that so much charge or mass had blown. Earlier she felt she was aging, her body was getting worn down and her spirit as well. As a completion she now felt alive, exuberant as a teenager or younger and had an entirely new outlook on life. How wonderful and tragic at the same time. I just finished my fourth or fifth session with Dexter. I don't know exactly what has just happened, but I have come out realizing that I am going to be alright. Everything has become quiet and serene for me. For the first time since I was 3 or 4 years old I am walking around feeling safe and secure and peaceful, like that young child walking in his yard in wonder at the beauty of the world and all that was present before him in that moment. I feel like a four year old Zen Master. I am back to perceiving things about people, only I have an adult and educated mind now. I have realized with great, great depth that I am an infinite spiritual being. I’ve had many, many lives and they are all irrelevant. I don't have to worry because I have already experienced everything before, so I don't have to play the “I'm worried what will happen” game anymore. I can have all I want to have but have no obsessive need of anything (although motorcycles are always good :)). My havingness is very high. I sat on my deck and read for two days and walked down the street to my shop and felt so "in the moment" and content or serene. I still have things going on that are a bummer, but they will fix and I will have a wonderful life with the most wonderful woman in the world. I spotted that I thought that big beings have big problems, but it is a total lie. I can be a big being and not have to have big problems. I do not need the adventure of having some undesirable thing happening to me for excitement or drama or to feel alive or to struggle. I have done this enough and am letting it go. I have my life back and I will do well with it. I will create a future that I want. I have my life back. I have my life back. I have myself back and am back connected to the totality of knowing without the need to know. Thank you Dexter, you have given someone their life back, you have restored another being back to feeling like the world was perfect and full of wonder and trust and love and honesty to a good person who thought it was all gone. XOXO

2012-01-12T03:19:12Z

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Terry Laster
14 December 2011

After many years of having my case completely tangled up but the Corporate Church of Scientology and after a short but thorough interview, Dexter came up with a wonderful program that completely paralleled my mind. I think it’s important to note, that EVERY OTHER AUDITOR either overtly or covertly invalidated the one thing that I wanted to have handled, but not Dex. He immediately let me know that he understood why I was so upset and that I shouldn’t worry because we were going to get THIS THING handled.

The next day, we’re in session, Dexter honing in on what was bugging me the most. The process, deceptively simple, was run with such finesse and high affinity. I felt totally duplicated for the first time in AGES—no more sec checks, no more crazy wrong actions, no more endless correction lists that don’t read nor wrong indications. Dexter’s not interested in ‘stats’ or ‘getting people up the Bridge’ (because you see, that was always the false promise that was made to me, just do the next action THEN you’ll get your case handled). Dexter’s just knows how to get a real product.

Here is a man with integrity, who studies the technology of the mind EVERY DAY, who doesn’t throw out processes because they are supposedly “old” and “outdated”, who doesn’t really care at all what his critics say. There is no way I can thank Dexter enough but I’ll keep trying. Thanks, Dexter. You rock!!!

ML,
Terry

P.S.
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2012-01-12T03:14:57Z

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